What do Christan Carter and Secret Occult Underworlds Have In Common?

WHAT?? Christan Carter and Secret Occult Underworlds?? I know - it sounds outrageous, but please do allow me to explain. It probably NOT what you were thinking (I know, I had visions of Edward Cullen and Christian Carter growling at each other in a Twilight-like scenario...)

Anyway - let's get to te point. Have you ever wondered what self-limiting beliefs are holding you back in your life? This is a very important aspect of dating, and Christian Carter addresses it in his eBook, Catch Him and Keep Him, (starting on page 38) and leads women through recognizing these beliefs and developing the tools to overcome them.

Today, I will be discussing on of these beliefs that Christian Carter points out. The first belief that stops many women from using their amazing sense of intuition and getting the love they so desperately want is the belief that your own experiences ARE reality.

This sounds really odd, doesn’t it? I mean, what other reality can there be other than your own? Well, I am not talking about other plains of existence or secret occult underworlds or anything creepy like that – what I am talking about is the experiences of others – and melding them with the experiences that YOU have been through.

Christian Carter explains it well in Catch Him and Keep Him, telling women that “These beliefs aren’t about “reality”, even though they seem real to you inside your mind. They’re about the things you’ve learned to fear and worry about, which have become your small lens for viewing what’s happening around you” (p 38).

So what does that MEAN to you in your relationship? Well, what it means is that you may have beliefs like 1)Men are liars 2)Men only want one thing 3)You cannot have a GOOD relationship 4)You are incapable of maintaining enough attraction to keep a man….and so on.

But what you have to realize, what Christian Carter explains in Catch Him and Keep Him, is that these are beliefs that you may not even REALIZE you hold – and they are destroying your chances at having a beautiful, healthy relationship. If you believe, in your heart of hearts, that you are not WORTHY of having a wonderful, caring, loving relationship, and that no man will find you attractive enough to even notice you, what do you think your chances are of meeting and making it with a wonderful, deserving guy?

Probably slim to none, if you secretly think you cannot. The first step to ACHIEVING is BELIEVING. So you have to identify these beliefs, eradicate them, and replace them with new, healthy, positive beliefs about yourself.

Christian Carter encourages women to do this, as he believes that women everywhere are beautiful, loving and deserving of a wonderful and healthy relationship. Natural and Lasting Attraction will come if you allow yourself to EXPECT that it will come, that you deserve it, that you are healthy and beautiful and vibrant. Learning to expect these things of yourself will produce confidence and attraction to men, which according to Christian Carter, cannot be replaced by ephemeral beauty and physical, fleeting, surface attraction.